I'm an ardent believer in conventional age-old wisdom but as times change, I think some practices have lost their context & have become near useless.
Two examples being; "Ithemba alibulali" & "Rather a living dog than a dead lion".
Ithemba alibulali in my native language simply means "Hope does not kill". This saying comes from a time when the world was still novel & people believed & anything was possible. In today's age of atheism & nullist beliefs where humanity already knows everything, nothing is new. There is no need for hope, just ability. In fact, from my point of view, it is better to have lost all hope & build from there than build on a dream. With no faith in anything, you can build with things that are proven to work. When you still have hope & believe in things "working out for the best", you leave yourself exposed to the elements. When you have no hope & believe that things inherently succumb to entropy, you have a more realistic view of the world. You do not, however, have to be a hardened pessimist but you leave room for fault. Nothing kills the human soul more than hope. When you live in hope, it is like a balloon among thorns.
"Rather a living dog than a dead lion" comes from a bible verse where it says; “For to him that is joined to all the living there is hope; for a living dog is better than a dead lion.” - Ecclesiastes 9:4
This comes from a time where the brave & free were seen with contempt & a timid, mundane existence was more preferred. In today's age, we are all lions, we are all brave & free. Being a living dog is more frowned upon than being a dead lion so this verse has almost lost it's value in the age of extended life expectancy. We see the dead lions as martyrs & living dogs as cowards. Perhaps what this phrase meant was that while the brave die in the battlefield, the coward lives to fight another day. This phrase has lost it's meaning today where the brave & foolish are protected & can live full lives as there are no longer that many wars.